Hi friends of reading and writing,
My memoir was written to fill a vacuum of information about the lives of women who have successfully balanced family life and careers in science, and I've been gratified that quite a few schools and other organizations where young women congregate have invited me to speak about it, making that message more accessible. So I was very pleased when recently a young postdoctoral fellow, Kate Sleeth, blogged about a talk I had given and about my book on the Stanford Medical School blog site, here:
When I wrote the memoir, I knew I couldn't keep harping on the same message or it would become boring immediately. I was very pleased that Kate saw in the book and my talk those things I hoped women would get, even though I had backed off from hammering people over the head with them. I feel that my life has been an interesting balancing act between being a serious scientist and professor on one hand and being a wife and mother on the other hand, so simply trying to recreate what it has been like for me is sure to bring the balance issue to the forefront.
I don't mean to address only young women in science; I hope that trying out the life of a female scientist is different enough from most people's experience that the memoir is worth reading for that alone, in the same way people read about a woman fishing boat captain or a woman secretary of state to find out how it is to live that life. But my special "now hear this" audience has always been young women who might reject a career in science because so many people now say it cannot be combined with family life. Yes, it can. I know quite a few women who have put that combination together, and my memoir is a kind of existence theorem (yes, it's possible, see, I exist!) for one's ability to do it and be glad of the effort it requires.
cheers,
Laura
She's right, you are an inspiration to us to keep on going in spite of the mess some of our professors talk. I don't know if Caltech has any married women with kids on the faculty, but a lot of the women who are there are very fierce against grad students or postdocs having kids. I think they're wrong and I'm glad you're saying so!
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